Backstory
One of the reasons I decided to document my thoughts, observations, and experiences is to help people break free from the shackles holding them back. It could also reignite the fire that feels dim inside me.
I’ve always been deeply inquisitive, even from a young age, constantly asking, “Why?” in an effort to understand why things are the way they are. This curiosity runs so deep that I often find it hard to sleep at night, as my mind replays the events of the day, scene by scene.
These moments of introspection allows me to reflect on how I can improve not just for myself, but also in my interactions with others. I frequently find myself questioning: Why an individual said or did something. I also imagine scenarios that have yet to occur, often in preparation for future meetings or events.
Because of my inquisitive and sensitive nature, I tend to notice details that others might miss.
Positive psychology
One significant insight I gained during my late teens was the concept of positive psychology, self-affirmation, and growth mindset practices.
After graduating from secondary school in 2007, I couldn’t afford to write JAMB until 2010. During my preparation in 2009, I attended a preparatory class where our teacher, Mr. Akim, introduced us to these ideas.
He advised us, “Avoid outrightly saying no when asked if you can do something, as it closes the door for your subconscious to find solutions. Instead, say, ‘I’ll try,’ which keeps your mind open to possibilities.”
Since adopting this mindset, I’ve consistently applied it in my life. As a result, many of my past and current bosses consider me someone who can always find solutions to problems.
Adopting this mindset goes beyond simply saying “I’ll try” or “I can.” It requires truly believing in yourself and putting in the effort. Positive affirmations and faith alone aren’t enough, you have to back them up with hard work and action.
Self fulfilling prophecy
When encouraging people, I strive to remind them that no one is inherently more special or better than anyone else. Success largely depends on mindset. If you truly believe in your ability to achieve something and commit your time and effort to it, you can accomplish it. This principle has been around for ages…………………………………………………………….to be continued.
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